Human behavior is to be happy (at least internally) when one is recognized or heard. That gives him/her a good outline of how other human beings are seeing him. This theory holds good for one's closed circle of fellow human beings. They could your close relatives , close friends, lover etc.
If one see that within his close circle of fellow human beings, conflicting signs - someone hear or recognize you whereas some one rejects or not hear you, that will put him into dilemma on the outline he gets on himself. it will be a terrible situation for one who wants to be a perfectionist.
In most of the situations, this situation is overcome by choosing one side. It could be the acceptance of response from reject/not hearing fellow humans or response form recognize/hearing fellow humans and that too most of the time from the later.
If one wants to be perfectionist and also a person who convinces and go , the above explained situation will be a hell for him. Some of them finally overcomes, some collapse and recover, some will fail terribly in all sense.
If one see that within his close circle of fellow human beings, conflicting signs - someone hear or recognize you whereas some one rejects or not hear you, that will put him into dilemma on the outline he gets on himself. it will be a terrible situation for one who wants to be a perfectionist.
In most of the situations, this situation is overcome by choosing one side. It could be the acceptance of response from reject/not hearing fellow humans or response form recognize/hearing fellow humans and that too most of the time from the later.
If one wants to be perfectionist and also a person who convinces and go , the above explained situation will be a hell for him. Some of them finally overcomes, some collapse and recover, some will fail terribly in all sense.
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