Relationships

I feel that the most lasting real relationship is between Parent and Child. To be precise, relationship between parent and Kid in his/her childhood only. For me all other relationships turned out to be existing for some specific objectives. Some of these objectives could evolved from selfishness.For example , some people brush-up the cold relationship , for their own advantages like to get some information / to pass some message to some other etc etc...

Relationship between Parent and Kid is evolved from pure love. I really enjoy spending time with my daughter, she often tells ( mostly without any specific reason) that she loves me a lot...

When she wakes up from sleep, first she calls 'Daddy...'.If somebody goes to her bed, she will turn from jovial mood except myself.

But having jovial relationships with others will be ideal situation for me, as it gives a great sense of Security / Dependence / Consolation. But everybody should then follow this , otherwise it will be a nice dream of myself only....

Thought of the day

Imagine the situation :

You are insisting/advising on some condition to someone. Despite your insistence , you see that its overruled.[ Forgive me If I am too philosophical / hypothetical ] . Later you see that your advise is taken by that someone, but not taken as your words , but their own decision.What would be your reaction?. ....

I remember a scene from Movie 'KalyanaRaman'. Scene - Ponnikara (Innocent) is serving the food in the Marriage party of Jyothirmayi . To an Old man , innocent politely ask , whether he wants to have some more rice. Subsequently Innocent make repeated requests , but the old man does not say yes..Innocent moves to next person in the row for serving . That time this old man calls from the back and say he wants more rice.. Innocent gets angry and say "ഈഇ നായിണ്ടേ മോനോട് നൂറു തവണ പറഞ്ഞതാ വേണോ വേണോ എന്ന് ....."

I also felt the same feeling in my mind.. But unfortunately that somebody was some one very close to you!!!

ടാറ്റാ ടീ പരസ്യം കണ്ടിട്ടുണ്ടോ?. വോട്ട് ചെയയു!!, രാക്ഷ്ട്രതോടുള്ള കടമ നിര്‍വഹിക്കു!!.

ഞങ്ങളുടെ ഓഫീസില്‍ ഒരു പറ്റം സഹപ്രവര്‍ത്തകര്‍ കൂടി , ഈ കാമ്പൈന്‍ ഏറ്റു പിടിച്ചു. വോട്ടെര്‍ ലിസ്റ്റ് ഉണ്ടാക്കലായി , ഫോളോ-അപ്പ്‌ sessions ആയി , പിന്നെ എന്തെല്ലാമോ കാട്ടി കൂടി ഇവര്‍!!

ഞാന്‍ ഈയിടെ ഓഫീസിലേക്ക് വരുമ്പോള്‍ ഒരു കാഴ്ച കണ്ടു , സഹപ്രവര്‍ത്തകരില്‍ ചിലര്‍ ട്രാഫിക് നിയമങ്ങള്‍ കാറില്‍ പരത്തി ഡ്രൈവ് ചെയ്യുന്നു. ഹൈദരാബാദില്‍ ഇതൊരു പുതുമയല്ല. എല്ലാവര്ക്കും അവരുടെ സ്വന്തം നിയമങ്ങള്‍. റൈറ്റ് ലൈനില്‍ സ്ലോ ആയി പോകും, ലെഫ്റ്റ് ലൈനില്‍ കൂടി ഓവറ്ടകെ ചെയ്യും, വണഉ വേ യിലുടെ തെറ്റായ ദ്യെരച്റേന്‍ ഓടിച്ചു വരും ( ഹെഡ് ലൈറ്റ് എല്ലാം ഇഇടു , അവരുടെ ആര്‍ക്കോ വായു ഗുളിക വെടിക്കുവാന്‍ പോകുന്നത് പോലെ ) .

ഞാന്‍ പറയുന്നതു , ഇത്തരം ഷോ പിസേസ് ആള്‍കാര്‍ രാഷ്ട്ര നിയമങ്ങളില്‍ അറ്റ്ലീസ്റ്റ് മാതൃക കാണിക്കണം . അല്ലെങ്ങില്‍ നെക്സ്റ്റ് ടൈം അവര്‍ വിളമ്പുന്നത് അവരുടെ മുന്‍പില്‍ കാര്കിച്ചു തുപ്പും.

ഞാന്‍ ഇതു എന്റെ ഫ്രുസ്ട്രെഷോണ്‍ കൊണ്ടെഴുതിയതാണ്. കൂടുതുല്‍ എഴുതുന്നയിരിക്കും.ഓര്‍മ്മകള്‍ ഉണ്ടായിരിക്കണം

Movie which I saw recently

Bhaarya Swantham Suhruthu ( Wife is your own friend) .

I saw this movie on Sunday Evening. Good Movie to see. No filled in extra action shots, no unnecessary comedy scenes. Director Venu Nagavalli has done good work in making this movie with a good message.

Mukesh and Jagathi has done good job.

Good Old Songs

I was hearing Malayalam songs of 80-90s. People who enjoyed them will be knowing how soothing them. Some of the songs I heard were from Film 'Deshadanakili Karayarilla , Ennennum Kannettante , Guruji Oru Vakku and Love Story. I came to office with a gloomy mood for unknown reasons , thought will hear some songs. As I keep on hearing , was soothed to great extent. All songs which heard were melodious and mostly sung by Dr KJ Yesudas. From around 11.00 AM IST till now ( 6.30 PM IST) I was hearing these songs except on the lunch break.Do not misunderstand me by thinking that I was only listening to osngs and not working

True colors of Life - Identity

The most important thing a person value is his identity. If he sees that his identity is being honored/acknowledged by other he will be feeling inner happiness definitely.Even if a person says that he does not want to reveal his identity ( context example : donations ) and by mistake, if his name is announced among the donors, the person will definitely feel inner happiness, though he won't be showing it in his face.So far from my observations and self analysis, this is what I understand.

Movie which I saw this week

I saw movie "Ekantham" yesterday.From the film news /review I heard earlier , I thought that this would be an slow and hence boring movie. But yesterday , due to the days hectic office work, I decided to watch this movie as today and tomorrow is weekend. Initially I felt that the movie is in line with what I heard earlier , but as movie progressed , I liked at and towards end , I was really involved in it!.

Small description of the Movie. It talks about the loneliness which People gets as a result of either avoidance of their children or the reluctance of them to leave their old habits etc etc...This movie will give a true picture of the feeling which every one would experience in their life now or at later part of their life. The movie also gives another dimension of the attachments of siblings. To the loneliness , if the company of illness comes, movie shows how painful the life becomes and how the true love can provide the consolation.

In the main thread of the story , a sub-thread portraits the life in a treatment center and gives a true picture of patients of cancer and their feelings.

Actors : Thilakan (Elder brother) , Murali ( Younger brother), Manoj K Jayan (Doctor) and Salim Kumar ( Cancer Patient) acted their role very well.

Nice movie with nice , small but beautiful theme , great message.!!